that is not love though, I have no doubt you and your wife have a bond but... LOVE is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, LOVE does not delight in evil, it always protects, always trusts, always hopes and always perseveres
I DO cherish her and she IS my best friend! I love her more than anything! We (I) LOVE sharing her and letting her have anything she wants. Our Love is deeper than most people can ever enjoy. Sex is just sex....and should be enjoyed while you still can...